Love and Hate

We’ve known each other since forever, LOVE said to HATE. Do you have feelings for me? Hate did not say a thing. We always write letters and walk in the beach; we spend all summers together, write our names in the sand and let the water hear our promises, says Love.

Hate said, I like you and there are lots of things I enjoy doing with you and a lot of words I still want to tell you but that’s all I can do, that’s all I can say. In his mind was a secret, Spending time with you means the whole world to me but there are things that I can’t tell you, things you need not to know, things that I would rather keep than to include you to a place where you are not worth existing, because there’s my dream, one step ahead, and you are my perfect reality that I cannot bear to lose once I’ve reached my dream, I am just afraid you might not keep up.

They parted ways that one summer night, Hate left the shore to continue his life in the city and Love pursued a simple life without Hate. Time flies like a simple breeze, never was a day that Love imagined living life with him, she waited by the shore every summer but no one came, no one remembers. Love promised herself that she’ll never give up with the feelings she has for Hate because it was all she has, until Love met an accident one night that made her lose her memory, she never went back to the shore where she spends all those summer with her beloved Hate.

Years have passed; Hate went back to the shore and reminisced all those moments with Love. From afar she saw a girl, walking and recognized her as Love. Hate called her attention but Love won’t give any interest on Hate, he was desperate for Love’s attention. Soon, Hate narrated everything Love has to know but she just told him, “Hate, maybe the old Love grew tired of waiting for you, maybe it’s time for us to continue with our separate lives, maybe it’s the will of the Gods for me to meet that tragic accident. As I’ve learned from your story, I endear you too much and I am glad to have known that, but my life belongs to my husband now, Happiness.” Hate has lost all his hopes for Love. He accepted the fact that Happiness took over Love’s heart.

Love has lived a beautiful life with Happiness, but she will never forget the story that there was once a possibility for Love and Hate to be one. Hate on the other hand, never bothered Love again, but when she misses her, he visits the shore... Things might have been different.

Excerpt from W. Shakespeare's Romeo & Juliet

Juliet:
'Tis almost morning, I would have thee gone—
And yet no farther than a wan-ton's bird,
That lets it hop a little from his hand,
Like a poor prisoner in his twisted gyves,
And with a silken thread plucks it back again,
So loving-jealous of his liberty.

Romeo:
I would I were thy bird.

Juliet:
Sweet, so would I,
Yet I should kill thee with much cherishing.
Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow,
That I shall say good night till it be morrow.

The heart of Flirting

Flirting, hypocritically speaking…

As quoted by Nikki Assavathorn, “Everyone knows what flirting is, but not everyone knows how to do it. There is nothing more fun than flirting. It feels great to be flirted with and flirted at, making it almost addictive. Do you know how to flirt? How do you flirt?”

I’ve been to many flirting moments with guys and with girls alike. Can we consider it a bad habit? A good past time? Something you do to intimidate others? Or something you unconsciously do but other considered it… DONE.

Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level. – Wikipedia

To be judge as flirt and that you do it to attract people is a perfect example of an attention seeking act. Insecurity of a person also triggers them to judge falsely, FYI false accusation is also a bad habit. Let us set an example, a girl befriended a guy or vice versa, and since the girl is not that stereotypically strange by all means, the guy’s friend/s, even those who are physically or even emotionally attracted to the guy, of course, could lead or give a negative judgment towards the girl, since they can see them hanging around, talking and laughing, nevertheless rumors will spread. That my friend is a simple act of being kind to others, which will be negatively interpreted by the “friends” as “flirting” more so, betraying some emotionally attracted girl to our not-so-gorgeous guy topic.

Again, this is a cliché…
And by this example I have made some rules with regards to those people who love to seek attention by accusing people by the looks and not by how they could start a conversation, even casual interaction as normal human beings.

RULE number 1, if you are not aware of the attitude of human towards another human, drop the negative judgments.

RULE number 2, stop seeking attention if you don’t want someone to be your friend.

RULE number 3, if you don’t want to be judge, stop acting like you want to be judge.

RULE number 4, leave your shit guarded if you don’t want (her) friends to get back at you. and...

RULE number 5, TELL IT DIRECTLY TO THE ACCUSED FACE, IF YOU THINK YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!

We all have rules in life, so if you have insecurities, feel free to approach a psychiatrist maybe they could help you solve those problems. Oh btw, again and again, to those who are super insecure coz you don’t know how to flirt… here are some pointers:

How to Flirt (wikiHow.com shows you):

Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential mates and see (within a short period of time) if they're compatible. In some situations, such as at a dance or a party, flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know and might not otherwise ever see again. Because of all of this, flirting is a very important skill, and it's one that makes a lot of people nervous. There is an art of flirting, though, and it's an art that can be learned. Here are some pointers for you. STEPS:

1.Lower your expectations.
2.Look approachable.
3.Read body language.
4.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
5.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
6.Gradually share information about yourself in a reciprocal manner.
7.Give the person your complete attention.
8.Use body language to hint at your romantic intentions.
9.Close the deal.

Now don’t go bothering people with Flirting absence to your life, let the web teach you. Ok?

What is love? LOVE is...

August 21, 2010
12:33 pm

What is love?
When I finished reading “Para kay B by Ricky Lee” I was inspired to write a blog and ask myself what is LOVE? Is it just a feeling you share with someone special? Is it really something that makes the world go round?
The tree asked the rain, what is love? The rain answered, it’s when I decided to pour over you and give you life.
The fish asked the stream, what is love? The stream uttered, it’s the reason you are breathing here and not in land.
The owl asked the moon, what is love? The moon answered its how I give you light when you fly at night.
The kite asked the wind, what is love? The wind replied its how I allow you to stay on your flight.
There are so many forms of Love, how you give, how you react, how you receive, how you portray, how you deliver, how you master… is for the people who feel it, is to know.
Last night a conversation grew between me and my friend, and for the 2nd time around, we talked about love, through our hearts and not just another story that will kill our time. She told me how she gave too many chances with the relationship she has with her boyfriend but it seems like, the chances she has given him was useless. I told her maybe he doesn’t know why you are giving him the chances he’s receiving; maybe he’s taking things for granted coz he knows how understanding you are in terms of relationships. With the thought in my mind, does it really have to be that hard for a guy to understand how important chances are? We never asked for too much… we just want you to add a little of your time, your attention, your kindness, to sum it all, we just need you to love us a little more. Her boyfriend texted me, telling me “I told you she’s going to leave me”, I told him, didn’t it occur to you that maybe the reason she left you is because you already imprinted to yourself that she doesn’t love you but in fact she really did, you just overshadowed yourself with pity that believing to what was suppose to be true was already false for you.
Love was never created for people to hate one another, though Hatred is always the opposite of love, we just pity ourselves. The fact that you have given everything for the relationship to grow and be strong but he’s still not with you and he’s with her… causes Hate. The fact that there are thousands and even million heart, beats around you, his heart chooses not to beat for you. Hate causes bitterness, sadness, sorrow, pity and to hell with words you might want to add.
Then what is Love?
Zeus says it is the peace of heart and mind that I feel even if I know she’s not beside me.
Nyx told me the question is very difficult to answer. But as I can see it through her, LOVE is the contentment of what she has in her heart.
Aphrodite told me Loneliness of 1, happiness of 2 and a quarrel of 3.
Eris told me it’s how she sees her; no words can express what the action can show.
The reborn god told me, nothing comes out of my head. (He has lost a battle, he, himself did not dare to pursue)
The happy lass said, it’s a certain glow of happiness. (TRUE)
The chronicles says LOVE is the opposite of indifference.
The mistress says I love you.
An old man told me, Love… it’s how I feel from the day I saw her, through our first dance, our first kiss, our first hug, how she cooks for me, how she touches my cheeks, how we sit beside each other while drinking coffee, how I still tell her, she looks younger than before even if our skin is sagging, and how I tell her how happy I am to have met her and told her “I love you”.

We perceive it in different ways but bear in mind; however we chose Love to be a part of our lives, EMBRACE it, coz only LOVE can separate the difference between two hearts and make it as one.

I am finding out… that maybe I was wrong.

It’s been 1 month, 18 days, 11 hours, and 54 minutes and I am thinking maybe I was wrong. I just want us to be “the happy ones” all throughout time. I’ve never been this in love with you until you made me feel that all we have is just our “I love you’s”. I started thinking maybe all I need is to adjust, I’m afraid to lose you but I’m also afraid to commit everything to you. I prayed that you will still understand me even if I go to work and spend less time with you, and I really hope that love will keep us together despite the fact that I still worry you might leave me soon or either I give up too soon. Mahal na mahal kita kung alam mo lang and I’m trying my very best to give back the love you’re giving me, I just hope that you do the same. I want you to tell me what’s going on, I want you to tell me if there’s something wrong, I don’t want you to ever feel that we’re far apart, I want you to scream my name if you’re in pain, I want you to talk to me as if we’re side-by-side, I want you to listen as if I am whispering to your ears, I want to share with you my happiness, my success and my sorrows, I want you to be a part of me as I go along with my plans. I hope you feel the same way and prove me too, that I was never wrong with you... as my choice.

241 Rivermaya

I want to live forever
Inside the nights and days.
Wishing on a silver cloud,
Crawling across the moonbeams.
A summer night in heaven
Between the stars and waves.
Race across the old bonfire;
Trample on my heartbeat.

I wanted to turn you on
My favorite song.
Wanted to be near you
But somebody owns you now.

I love you with a fire,
Ablazing till times end
But what good is a heart
When it shudders to speak.
I guess it's too late now.

"I wanted to turn you on
My favorite song.
Wanted to be near you
But (of course) somebody owns you now.
(And) I tried to live somehow
Somebody owns you now"

Somebody owns you now

Would you be happier -- Corrs

Have you ever wonder where the story ends, and how it all began, I do (I do, I do, I do, I do)
Did you ever dream you were the movie star with popcorn in your hand, I did (I did, I did, I did)
Do you ever think you're someone else inside, when no one understands you are (you are)
And wanna disappear inside a dream but never wanna wake, wake uuuuuup
Then you stumble on tomorrow, and trip over today

(Chorus)
Would you be happier if you were someone together
Would the sun shine brighter if you played a bigger part
Would you be wonderful if it wasn't for the weather
You're gonna be just fine (gonna be just fine)

Are you not afraid to tell your story now, when everyone is done it's too late (too late, too late)
Was everything you've ever said or done not the way you planned, mistaaaake
So you promised that tomorrow, be different than today

(Chorus)
Would you be happier if you were someone together
Would the sun shine brighter if you played a bigger part
Would you be wonderful if it wasn't for the weather
You're gonna be just fine
I think you're gonna be just fine
You're gonna be just fine
So don't worry baby

You're racing for tomorrow, not finished with today

Would you be happier if you were someone together
Would the sun shine brighter if you played a bigger part
Would you be wonderful if it wasn't for the weather
I think you're gonna be just fine

Would we be happier if we were someone together
Would the sun shine brighter if we played a bigger part
Would we be wonderful if it wasn't for the weather
I think we're gonna be just fine
I think you're gonna be just fine

Don't worry baby
Gonna be just fine
Don't worry honey
Gonna be just fine
Don't worry baby
Gonna be just fiiiiine

The reasons why I love you...

i love you to the moon and back

I love how you say ''mahal, wake up na''
I love you coz you're so cute when you say ''ok, kiss ko?''
I love how you say I’m so cute when I ask a kiss from you.
I love how you say your ''i love you's''
I love how you alot time texting me even if you're at school.
I love how you panic when I don’t text you.
I love you coz I’m always at your thoughts.
I love you coz you never complain.
I love how you bear with me when I have tantrums.
I love you even though you’re a cry baby.
I love you coz you always call me.
I love you coz you’re trying your best to please me.
I love you coz you can easily make me smile.
I love everything about you luvvy.

And even though I can’t reason out how it all began, I really hope it won’t end.

“mahal na mahal kita Yuki.”