Flirting, hypocritically speaking…
As quoted by Nikki Assavathorn, “Everyone knows what flirting is, but not everyone knows how to do it. There is nothing more fun than flirting. It feels great to be flirted with and flirted at, making it almost addictive. Do you know how to flirt? How do you flirt?”
I’ve been to many flirting moments with guys and with girls alike. Can we consider it a bad habit? A good past time? Something you do to intimidate others? Or something you unconsciously do but other considered it… DONE.
Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level. – Wikipedia
To be judge as flirt and that you do it to attract people is a perfect example of an attention seeking act. Insecurity of a person also triggers them to judge falsely, FYI false accusation is also a bad habit. Let us set an example, a girl befriended a guy or vice versa, and since the girl is not that stereotypically strange by all means, the guy’s friend/s, even those who are physically or even emotionally attracted to the guy, of course, could lead or give a negative judgment towards the girl, since they can see them hanging around, talking and laughing, nevertheless rumors will spread. That my friend is a simple act of being kind to others, which will be negatively interpreted by the “friends” as “flirting” more so, betraying some emotionally attracted girl to our not-so-gorgeous guy topic.
Again, this is a cliché…
And by this example I have made some rules with regards to those people who love to seek attention by accusing people by the looks and not by how they could start a conversation, even casual interaction as normal human beings.
RULE number 1, if you are not aware of the attitude of human towards another human, drop the negative judgments.
RULE number 2, stop seeking attention if you don’t want someone to be your friend.
RULE number 3, if you don’t want to be judge, stop acting like you want to be judge.
RULE number 4, leave your shit guarded if you don’t want (her) friends to get back at you. and...
RULE number 5, TELL IT DIRECTLY TO THE ACCUSED FACE, IF YOU THINK YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!
We all have rules in life, so if you have insecurities, feel free to approach a psychiatrist maybe they could help you solve those problems. Oh btw, again and again, to those who are super insecure coz you don’t know how to flirt… here are some pointers:
How to Flirt (wikiHow.com shows you):
Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential mates and see (within a short period of time) if they're compatible. In some situations, such as at a dance or a party, flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know and might not otherwise ever see again. Because of all of this, flirting is a very important skill, and it's one that makes a lot of people nervous. There is an art of flirting, though, and it's an art that can be learned. Here are some pointers for you. STEPS:
1.Lower your expectations.
2.Look approachable.
3.Read body language.
4.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
5.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
6.Gradually share information about yourself in a reciprocal manner.
7.Give the person your complete attention.
8.Use body language to hint at your romantic intentions.
9.Close the deal.
Now don’t go bothering people with Flirting absence to your life, let the web teach you. Ok?
I’ve been to many flirting moments with guys and with girls alike. Can we consider it a bad habit? A good past time? Something you do to intimidate others? Or something you unconsciously do but other considered it… DONE.
Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level. – Wikipedia
To be judge as flirt and that you do it to attract people is a perfect example of an attention seeking act. Insecurity of a person also triggers them to judge falsely, FYI false accusation is also a bad habit. Let us set an example, a girl befriended a guy or vice versa, and since the girl is not that stereotypically strange by all means, the guy’s friend/s, even those who are physically or even emotionally attracted to the guy, of course, could lead or give a negative judgment towards the girl, since they can see them hanging around, talking and laughing, nevertheless rumors will spread. That my friend is a simple act of being kind to others, which will be negatively interpreted by the “friends” as “flirting” more so, betraying some emotionally attracted girl to our not-so-gorgeous guy topic.
Again, this is a cliché…
And by this example I have made some rules with regards to those people who love to seek attention by accusing people by the looks and not by how they could start a conversation, even casual interaction as normal human beings.
RULE number 1, if you are not aware of the attitude of human towards another human, drop the negative judgments.
RULE number 2, stop seeking attention if you don’t want someone to be your friend.
RULE number 3, if you don’t want to be judge, stop acting like you want to be judge.
RULE number 4, leave your shit guarded if you don’t want (her) friends to get back at you. and...
RULE number 5, TELL IT DIRECTLY TO THE ACCUSED FACE, IF YOU THINK YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!
We all have rules in life, so if you have insecurities, feel free to approach a psychiatrist maybe they could help you solve those problems. Oh btw, again and again, to those who are super insecure coz you don’t know how to flirt… here are some pointers:
How to Flirt (wikiHow.com shows you):
Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential mates and see (within a short period of time) if they're compatible. In some situations, such as at a dance or a party, flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know and might not otherwise ever see again. Because of all of this, flirting is a very important skill, and it's one that makes a lot of people nervous. There is an art of flirting, though, and it's an art that can be learned. Here are some pointers for you. STEPS:
1.Lower your expectations.
2.Look approachable.
3.Read body language.
4.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
5.Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two.
6.Gradually share information about yourself in a reciprocal manner.
7.Give the person your complete attention.
8.Use body language to hint at your romantic intentions.
9.Close the deal.
Now don’t go bothering people with Flirting absence to your life, let the web teach you. Ok?
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